Class In Session

So there I am, I just rolled over onto my side and began to fall asleep. My GF hopped out of bed and left the bedroom. This is how sex had ended for us for as long as can remember. I thought to myself, I can't remember her cumming the past few times. In fact, I can't even remember her moving all that much. Sex had become routine, we planned it at the same time, the same way, every time. I’m sure it had ended at the same time also, usually with me cumming, kissing her, and rolling over to fall asleep like. Our relationship had gone into a funk and we both knew it. I knew I loved this woman, something had to be done, something had to change, and I knew I wanted it to change for the better. I'm a fighter; I wasn't going to give up without giving it my all. Looking back now I wonder how many couples have just given up. Is this why people end up having affairs? I myself have a few friends who had been together for many years, some end up or start out with marriage. Most of those marriages are now over, some with bitter endings; in conversations with them I learned that their sex life or lack of it was a big part of it.

The very next day I began to search for the answers I needed. Where do I start? I didn't know where to begin. I already knew I couldn't ask my friends. My parents were divorced, as were a lot of my other family members. There wasn't any material or info out there that stuck out for men and relationship help. Women have Cosmo and about 20 magazines for them to read, they have a plethora of knowledge. Google maybe? It has everything, I type in relationship help for men. Nothing, what a bunch of BS, no I don't want to be a player, no I don't want to buy your book, no I'm not going to be the most sensitive, romantic man in the world. Nothing, nothing, nothing. That's when I had an epiphany! Why not get the women point of view. I came to find that there is probably more information on relationship help for women than any other one subject on the Earth.

I dove into this world with a since of caution, and began to question my very self. I knew how I arrived at this point. This was going to be journey not too much unlike putting a man on the moon or going to war in a foreign nation. At first there were a lot of dumb tests and articles that tried to guide women to find their Prince Charming. Then through the cracks I began to hear the voices of actual women, from the real world. I found a few websites and blogs, I soaked up all of the complaints and advice they had about their men, some even asking why doesn’t he do this or know that? I took all of this info in and began to dissect what I could actually apply to my relationship. Some of it I was already complying with, this is probably why my GF loved me and was still holding on. However, on the other side it was what I was not doing or respecting that put us in that danger zone. What I quickly learned was that every part of your relationship affected the other part. It was so simple, yet, not so simple. Are you still not with me? I found what happened in the morning; afternoon and evening affected what happen in the bedroom. What happened in the bedroom had an effect what happened the next day. The magnitude of this, good or bad, spanned from a few minutes to hours, too days and weeks, months and for those of my friends whom I earlier mentioned, years.

The result of my findings and applying those results in daily routine has renewed both our relationship and lives. Don't get me wrong though, we still have or moments. These moments are far in between and the only time I just roll over and fall asleep is after an amazing romp. I have created this blog to compile all of the tools I have found useful. This is a place where men and women can come and research and use those tools to help their relationships as a whole. Just remember, I am not a doctor, psychologist or specialist in this field. I am just a guy who puts on his boots everyday for work with some advice and ideas that I wish was there for me when I needed it.