Nookie Tip

You are in the middle of some heavy petting and you know by now she is wet. Your finger slip into those sexy boy shorts she is wearing. Slip smoothly between her lips and begin to massage her clit. She gasps in the bad way and snaps her legs shut tight like a venus fly trap. What's wrong baby? Nothing kills the mood faster for woman in a moment like that than a painful scratch for your fingernails. Yes, it's a small common sense thing to do, though when a scratch happens, it hurts like hell. No you cannot finish and cut them for next time. It's the small things that count; guys you should be prepared at all times for nookie. As an added plus, women love a well groomed man.

Just For Her

She was standing at the foot of the bed getting dressed, now just in her panties. Small slivers of light pierced strongly through the blinds creating a glow around her. I walked into the room and up to her backside, put my arms around her waist. My hands met at her stomach, caressed her, and pulled her body against mine; the lavender smell in her dark hair was seductive. I leaned in, kissed her soft and slow from behind her ear down her neck. "Mmm" was the only sound she made as I felt her give into me. My hands traveled up to her breasts, cupping and rubbing them. Kissing along her spine, I dropped to my knees. Now my lips are at the small of her back, I drop my hands to her hips. I press against them and slip my fingers into the top of her panties. Her breath has become deep and shallow, I know she is excited, I know she wants this to happen.

I pull her panties half way down her butt.
Kiss her in the bare spot several times.
Pull the panties under cheeks.
Kiss the fresh spot.
My hands free themselves.
I stand back up.
Press myself against her.
Bend her body over the bed.

I use my legs to spread hers apart. I run a single finger up her leg and push the panties between her lips. She gasps. To my surprise, the panties are instantly damp, she is wet. I push a second finger in between and spread them apart letting her clit slide in between them. She moans. She pushes back to meet me. I pull out, drop the panties between her ankles and return to split her lips again and find her clit. She clinches in pleasure. Her moans are now closer together, louder. She spreads her legs further, inviting more of me. She is dripping cum, I pull my fingers together to cover her clit, the two massage it, up, down, around, there is almost no friction in her wetness. I am intoxicated by this and almost fell her pleasure as if we are connected in some way. I lean over her body to run my free hand over her butt up the valley of her back and through her hair. I position her clit between my alternating fingers, rubbing even harder. Her juices are flowing down her making everything wetter.

Her body shakes.
Her legs clinch, pinching my fingers tight.
My fingers press flat and hard, grinding her mound.
I pull them away from her clit and plunge them both deep into her.
She screams out. I grab all the hair I can and pull her head back.
I push deeper into her, downward against the wall of her cunt.
She quivers. I feel her insides swelling bigger with each pulse.
She falls silent.
She holds her breath.
Pulsing faster.
Her insides fill up.
Her juices flow out over my fingers.
She screams, almost violently.
She begins to move around, trying to get her balance.
She flattens out on the bed.
I free my hand. Press my chest against her back. Skin to skin.
Kiss her on the neck. Tell her to have a wonderful day.
I rise off of her. Pull her panties back up.

As I leave the room I look back at her and smile. She still lays there bent over the bed arms spread out. A grin from ear to ear. She catches a little of her breath and says to me “You know I have to do my hair again."

Nookie Tip

Foreplay starts when the sun rises. Guys, if you’re planning on getting some booty tonight, your actions this morning can decide if that is going to happen. So, before you leave for work make sure the garbage and recycling are out and your breakfast dishes are in the sink. Tell her to have a wonderful day with a kiss as your walking out the door. If she is still asleep leave a note by the coffee maker. While you are at work, send her a text that you are thinking of her. Kiss her when you get home, and make sure this is the first thing you do. Do a load of laundry or the dishes, anything that gives her 1 less thing to do. Do this right when you get home, because you know once you hit that couch it’s over. This domestic work does not have to be done every day. A little is going to go a long…long…long way. Following these steps will help tip the scales in your favor during nookie negotiations!

Nookie Tip

Foreplay starts when the sun rises. Guys, if you’re planning on getting some booty tonight, your actions this morning can decide if that is going to happen. So, before you leave for work make sure the garbage and recycling are out and your breakfast dishes are in the sink. Tell her to have a wonderful day with a kiss as your walking out the door. If she is still asleep leave a note by the coffee maker. While you are at work, send her a text that you are thinking of her. Kiss her when you get home, and make sure this is the first thing you do. Do a load of laundry or the dishes, anything that gives her 1 less thing to do. Do this right when you get home, because you know once you hit that couch it’s over. This domestic work does not have to be done every day. A little is going to go a long…long…long way. Following these steps will help tip the scales in your favor during nookie negotiations!

Class In Session

So there I am, I just rolled over onto my side and began to fall asleep. My GF hopped out of bed and left the bedroom. This is how sex had ended for us for as long as can remember. I thought to myself, I can't remember her cumming the past few times. In fact, I can't even remember her moving all that much. Sex had become routine, we planned it at the same time, the same way, every time. I’m sure it had ended at the same time also, usually with me cumming, kissing her, and rolling over to fall asleep like. Our relationship had gone into a funk and we both knew it. I knew I loved this woman, something had to be done, something had to change, and I knew I wanted it to change for the better. I'm a fighter; I wasn't going to give up without giving it my all. Looking back now I wonder how many couples have just given up. Is this why people end up having affairs? I myself have a few friends who had been together for many years, some end up or start out with marriage. Most of those marriages are now over, some with bitter endings; in conversations with them I learned that their sex life or lack of it was a big part of it.

The very next day I began to search for the answers I needed. Where do I start? I didn't know where to begin. I already knew I couldn't ask my friends. My parents were divorced, as were a lot of my other family members. There wasn't any material or info out there that stuck out for men and relationship help. Women have Cosmo and about 20 magazines for them to read, they have a plethora of knowledge. Google maybe? It has everything, I type in relationship help for men. Nothing, what a bunch of BS, no I don't want to be a player, no I don't want to buy your book, no I'm not going to be the most sensitive, romantic man in the world. Nothing, nothing, nothing. That's when I had an epiphany! Why not get the women point of view. I came to find that there is probably more information on relationship help for women than any other one subject on the Earth.

I dove into this world with a since of caution, and began to question my very self. I knew how I arrived at this point. This was going to be journey not too much unlike putting a man on the moon or going to war in a foreign nation. At first there were a lot of dumb tests and articles that tried to guide women to find their Prince Charming. Then through the cracks I began to hear the voices of actual women, from the real world. I found a few websites and blogs, I soaked up all of the complaints and advice they had about their men, some even asking why doesn’t he do this or know that? I took all of this info in and began to dissect what I could actually apply to my relationship. Some of it I was already complying with, this is probably why my GF loved me and was still holding on. However, on the other side it was what I was not doing or respecting that put us in that danger zone. What I quickly learned was that every part of your relationship affected the other part. It was so simple, yet, not so simple. Are you still not with me? I found what happened in the morning; afternoon and evening affected what happen in the bedroom. What happened in the bedroom had an effect what happened the next day. The magnitude of this, good or bad, spanned from a few minutes to hours, too days and weeks, months and for those of my friends whom I earlier mentioned, years.

The result of my findings and applying those results in daily routine has renewed both our relationship and lives. Don't get me wrong though, we still have or moments. These moments are far in between and the only time I just roll over and fall asleep is after an amazing romp. I have created this blog to compile all of the tools I have found useful. This is a place where men and women can come and research and use those tools to help their relationships as a whole. Just remember, I am not a doctor, psychologist or specialist in this field. I am just a guy who puts on his boots everyday for work with some advice and ideas that I wish was there for me when I needed it.

Nookie Tip

The woman has had a hard week, the boss has been riding her and in this economy you really can't push back or your out the door. Maybe she stays home, takes care of the kid, laundry, dishes, cleaning, want me to go on? No, you've learned your lesson about that already! Anyway, the point is she needs a little pampering. Yes, you've been working hard also and need a little nookie time. So, at the end of the night why don't you give her a massage. Strip her down and have her lay her stomach. Grab this to use, and make sure you rub your hands to warm it before you touch her. I find that 12-15 minutes on her back is enough time for her to relax and bless you for thinking of her. Spend the next 5 minutes on her legs and butt. Now what's good about this is that it doubles as a lubricant! It is a must have in the bedroom, it is discreet, multi-purpose, creates near zero friction and a little goes a long, long way. It's available at Wal-Mart, Meijer, etc. So if your embarrassed about buying a lubricant you can use the self check out lane.

Gently, your hands find themselves between hers legs and up her thigh. If she is into this, and she should be, her legs will part for you to more easily reach her. Now that you have the green light don't be shy on the Intrigue, you want it to be slippery as possible. Trust me on this now, massage her lips and start with the larger outer ones. Slowly up and down each one, one at a time roll them between your fingers. Now the inner lips the same way. Make sure you don't neglect the clit, just tease it this time, maybe next time spend more time on it. By now your felling the heat from her and you want yours, so climb up behind her, apply some to your little man and slowly make love to her. Lay on top of her skin on skin let her feel your weight, breather down her neck, whisper in her ear and stoke her hair. Remember you just gave her a back rub don't go bending it out of shape tonight! Try this and come back and tell The Other Man how much more your woman loves you.

Nookie Tip

We just arrived home for the evening and we are going at it. My foreplay is absolutely on its A game. We are slowly making way to the bedroom. Stop! "I have to go to the bathroom" she tells me. Why? This has happened more than once, I'm I doing something wrong? Is there something wrong with her? I need to know, I can't figure it out, so I ask her as she is walking out "Why do you rush into the bathroom like that?" "Because I don't want a full bladder when I want to cum. I won't get off if I think I'm going to pee all over." That makes since. So, if this is happening to you don't worry one bit. In fact, I now see this as a good sign that the night won't be over quickly!